Remember Carrie from Sex and the City and how her first date with Big ended in bed, despite all her fears that this is the way to lose a guy? She isn’t alone – many women think it is wrong to have sex after the first date.
The question if having sex after the first date is OK or not is a very frequent one and the answers to it are many – Yes!, No!!!!, Maybe?, It depends! If your first date was with somebody you have seen for the first time, having sex with him is a NO-NO. If you have sex with him, you will not only look cheap but this could also be dangerous for you.
On the other hand, if your first date was with somebody whom you have known for a long time (maybe he was just a friend, or a colleague, classmate, etc.) and you don’t worry about your physical safety when you are alone with him, having sex with him is not such a risk. Actually, it could be OK to do it but still, you’d better avoid having sex after the first date because you can easily be labeled as a whore or at least as somebody who is cheap to get into bed. If your relationship develops, you will have plenty of time for sex, so why hurry to do it right after the first date?
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Tags: dating, dating tips, first date, sex
May 25th, 2010 at 8:53 pm
I totally agree! having sex after the first date is lame – and cheap!